If you follow the Steve Harvey Show....then you know about the Strawberry Letters. (If not its a segment where you can email/mail in your situation and ask for advice on a solution from the team) Well I am going to paste below today's letter...
Hey everybody, I'm a 24yr woman I get graduated from college in Biology I'm also a AKA. I have no family but my boyfriend we been dating since high school. He hates the fact that Im smarter than him and i graduated early from college he's a slacker. He recently broke my arm cause I got excepted for a job in Texas. His mother say just deal with it cause you know how much he love u PLEASE!! 3mths ago he bust my nose and cut all me hair offcause he didn't make the faternity. I tryed talking to his mother about leaving but she goes back and tell him everything. I know Im smart but everytime I try to leave he follows I'm scared the next will be that he KILLS me WHAT I AM TO DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Please feel free to share your thoughts. I will keep mine hidden because I want to know if we have the same thing on our mind as we read this. Please post the first thing that comes to your head...and if after you process it later on in the day, week, month, year...come back!
~feenix
6 comments:
WELL FIRST & FOREMOST SHE NEEDS TO STOP TALKING TO HIS MOTHER BECAUSE IT IS OBVIOUS THAT SHE HAD A HAND IN THE WAY HE FEELS HE CAN ANOTHER FEMALE...
SECONDLY WHAT IS THE POINT OF HER GRADUATING BEFORE HIM ONLY TO STOP AND WAIT FOR HIM TO GET HIS SHIT TOGETHER? HELL IF HE CAN'T DEAL WITH THE FACT THAT SHE IS DOING WELL & HE ISN'T THEN THAT'S HIS PROBLEM!!!
THIRDLY I FIND THAT WHEN PEOPLE ASK FOR ADVICE, THEY ALREADY KNOW WHAT TO DO...THEY ARE JUST LOOKING FOR CONFIRMATION FROM OTHERS WHICH IS FINE, BUT IT IS YOUR LIFE AND HE TAKES THEN WHAT?
Duly noted... I will post my thoughts about it later.
Does this girl have any family. This guy is crazy and he will end up killing her, not even necessarily on purpose, but in a jealous rage. There has to be a relative somewhere she can call (who is paying for college). She needs to take the hard line. Leave, don't tell him where or when she's going, get a restraining order. Purchase some pepper spray and a taser (both purchasable on ebay for under 20 bucks) to protect herself just in case he tries to roll up on her. This sounds like a complete Ike and Tina situation.
Duly noted sis...posting my thoughts later.
She needs to hire a lawyer and sue the college she graduated from.
First of all Im sorry but u need to stop talking to his mother because that is his mother and she will only be looking out for his best interest only. Second of all im sorry but for right now u need to start saving some money find a friend that can help you go to a shelter for battered women than change everything about u as far as where u bank the route you take. Accept ur job at Texas and move pack ur stuff little by little everyday and go put it in a storage until u have everything that u need and purchase a ticket change ur mail to go to a po box office instead of to the house only send junk mail and when it is time take ur job and never look back. Also change ur phone number and most importanly do not and i say do not contact his mother or anyone that the both of u were friends with before because honestly the next time it will not be a broken arm or bloody nose it will b u be buried six feet under. Please get help because there is alot of help out there because it breaks my heart for u to be going through this find a way to leave and leave n do not let people talk u out of because the answer to y ur leaving is already marked on ur body by bodly damanged he has done to u as well as the mental abuse as well. I pray that u get out of this with strength and confidence may god b with u on ur journey
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